What can I do if my spouse refuses to
pay child support?
The unfortunate fact is that some parents simply refuse to meet
their child support obligations, either because they believe that the
amount ordered is excessive or because they look at the payments
as a benefit to their ex-spouse instead of as a necessity to meet the
needs of their children. All states have implemented methods of
collection of support from “deadbeats.” These methods may include
garnishment of wages, attachment of assets, and even jail time until
payment a lump sum toward the arrearage he has accrued. A local
attorney can recommend the best way for you to pursue the
payments to which your children are entitled. Be realistic, though.
Spending money and time pursuing your ex may not be cost
effective, and it certainly will hinder your ability to get on with your
life. However, if your spouse is employed or has assets, it’s certainly
worth an attorney’s consultation fee to find out your options.

Keep in mind that child support enforcement laws have been
enacted on a Federal level. Therefore, the fact that your ex-spouse
lives in a different state does not necessarily preclude collection of
child support from him.

Also remember that you should not withhold visitation with the
children based on your ex-spouse’s failure to pay support without
first discussing the issue with a local attorney. The fact is that, in
some jurisdictions, this practice is strictly prohibited, and can even
cause you to lose custody. You should also, of course, think about
the potential impact that the denial of visitation may have on your
children.

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